There is no shame for you or for any of us to admit that you struggle in your marriage. There is no such thing as a problem-proof relationship. If you expect your relationship to be smooth sailing, you may fall hard when it isn’t. What you see as a “problem” in your marriage is also a door for new opportunities

One common idea that can come up when discussing polyamory is “I didn’t sign up for this when I married you.” This may sound argumentative but being able to speak the truth may help start the healing process. You see, our guts feelings often tell us that we are not built or ready to commit to a certain thing.